Eyeย ๐ย This List of Must-Hear โIโ Songs, Vol. 4ย features songs by Chaka Khan, Joe Tex, Jordan Firstman, Juno Lev, Morgan Wallen, and Peder Elias.
The keyword is the pronoun, I, hence, Eyeย ๐ย This List of Must-Hear โIโ Songs, Vol. 4.ย Eyeย ๐ย This List of Must-Hear โIโ Songs, Vol. 4ย follows upโฏEye ๐ This List of Must-Hear โIโ Songs (2021), Eyeโฏ๐โฏThis List of Must-Hear โIโ Songs, Vol. 2 (2024), and Eyeโฏ๐โฏThis List of Must-Hear โIโ Songs, Vol. 3 (2025). The criterion is simple: every song must feature some form of the pronoun,โฏI, in the title. โฏThere are lots of โIโ songs.โฏ This list is limited to 13.โฏ Eyeย ๐ย This List of Must-Hear โIโ Songs, Vol. 4ย features songs by Chaka Khan, Joe Tex, Jordan Firstman, Juno Lev, Morgan Wallen (twice), and Peder Elias. So, without further ado, embrace the power ofโฏI!ย
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1. Joe Tex, โI Gotchaโ
Greatest Hits // Curbย // 1991
โI gotcha / Uh-huh, uh / You thought I didnโt see you now, didnโt ya, uh.โ Gifted but short-lived southern soul singer/songwriter Joe Tex (1935 โ 1982) delivered an R&B bop for the ages with โI Gotchaโ. Fun and energetic to the nth degree, Tex โgives his all.โ โUh-huh, uh / You tried to sneak by me now, didnโt ya?โ he continues in the epic chorus, concluding, โNow give me what you promised me, give it here / Come on.โ Tex penned the two-and-a-half-minute gem, which was originally intended for another southern soul legend, King Floyd (1945 โ 2006). Buddy Killen produced it. โI Gotchaโ peaked at number two on the Billboard Hot 100 and was certified gold by the RIAA.
There are many reasons why โI Gotchaโ is the bop that it is. Joe Tex delivers assertive and playful lead vocals.ย There is ample energy, personality, and spirit. In the bridge preceding the first verse, Tex has us all screaming, โGood God!โ He is gritty when he sings, as well as the โrappedโ (spoken word) vocals. โYou promised me the day that you quit your boyfriend / Iโd be the next one to ease on in,โ he sings memorably in the first verse, continuing, โYou promised me it would be just us two, yeah / And Iโd be the only man kissinโ on you, yeah.โ Both verses are followed by a delightful bridge, which is followed by the potent chorus.ย The best iteration of the chorus is the final one: โGood God, I gotcha, ha-ha-ha / Oh, I gotcha / Give it up, I gotcha / Give it on here, I gotcha.โย Beyond the songwriting and electrifying singing, โI Gotchaโ is funky as hell. It has one of the most kick-ass bass lines that youโll ever hear โ itโll change your life! Also, those exuberant, articulated horns are the sugar, honey, iced tea.ย If you have never heard this scintillating, southern soul class, you are missing out!
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2. Jordan Firstman, โI wanna see my friends dicksโ
Secrets // Openly Gay Productions / UMG Recordings Inc. // 2025
โI wanna see my friendsโ dicks out at the bar / I wanna see my friends’ dicks, donโt care if itโs hard.โ So, even if itโs flaccid, Jordan Firstman wants to see it. Noted. With a title like โI wanna see my friends dicksโ, little needs to be analyzed or explained. โI wanna see my friends dicksโ is the second track from the actor/comedian/musicianโs 2025 debut album, Secrets. The two lines excerpted from the unforgettable chorus provide context, if it was needed, that is. Firstman and producer Blake Slatkin wrote this infectious, outlandish, and risquรฉ pop joint. Beyond co-writing, Slatkin puts in work behind the boards. Is โI wanna see my friends dicksโ gay? You bet your D it is!
Yes, โI wanna see my friends dicksโ is a gay sex song.ย There is no denying that! But take this NSFW gay pop single with a grain of salt ๐ง. It is meant to be fun and carefree.ย See verse two:
โSo go to the bathroom and fluff it up
Whatever you need to do (Mhm)
I just think, I donโt know, it could be fun and cool
To see all seven inches ๐ of you ๐ (Thatโs big).โ
Well, well, well! Depending on who you are, you are either laughing your ass off or clutching your pearls ๐ ๐ณ! On the bridge, fittingly, Jordan lists, and in some cases, describes his friendsโ penises.ย โDanโs uncut, Blake is thick / Girthy, hooded, short or long / Come on bro, show me that schlong.โ Lawdy! The lyrics thrive off innuendo and, dick, duh! You wonโt be able to get โI wanna see my friends dicksโ out of your head. I sure canโt!
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3. Chaka Khan, โIโm Every Womanโ
Chaka // Warner // 1978ย
โIโm every woman, itโs all in me / Anything you want done, baby, Iโll do it naturally.โ Ah, the empowerment, and you donโt have to be a woman to appreciate and embrace it! โIโm Every Womanโ commences Chaka, the 1978 gold-certified debut album by the one-and-only Chaka Khan (1953 โ ). Nikolas Ashford (1942 โ 2011) and Valerie Simpson (1946 – ) penned a dynamic debut solo single for Khan, one of the greatest singers EVER. Arif Mardin produced it. Unsurprisingly, the song was nominated for the Grammy for Best R&B Vocal Performance, Female. ย A success on the pop charts, โIโm Every Womanโ peaked at number 21 on the Billboard Hot 100.ย As of October 7, 2024, โWomanโ was certified gold.
So, what makes โIโm Every Womanโ a masterpiece? It begins with Chaka Khan.ย Her voice is high-flying โ dynamic, expressive, nuanced, and sublime.ย Those biting high notes give you chills.ย The songwriting is fantastic, the expectation from a dynamic duo like Ashford & Simpson. Chaka lists all the great things women can do.ย โI can cast a spell / With secrets you canโt tell,โ she sings in the first verse, continuing, โMix a special brew / Put fire inside of you.โ Oh, snap! In the second verse, she can ย โsense your needs,โ but sheโs got plenty of good old-fashioned love. Say that, Chaka! The bridge distinguishes itself in sound but maintains the empowered sensibilities: โAnd donโt bother to compare / โCause Iโve got it.โ Indeed!ย Beyond the singing and songwriting, the musical accompaniment and production are terrific. The dance/disco/funk aesthetic is masterfully established from the get-go. The backdrop is colorful with a rich palette of sounds.ย The rhythm section is locked in, anchored by a mean groove, sweet keys, a big, athletic bass line, and a sick rhythmic guitar.ย The orchestra is lit, with elegant, rhythmic strings.ย Beyond Khanโs lead vocals, the backing vocals deserve shout-outs, amplifying her sickening lead. โIโm Every Womanโ is Chaka Khan at her best. The late, great Whitney Houston famously covered it!
Appears in ๐ป:
- Chaka Khan, Iโm Every Woman: Throwback Vibez ๐ถ๏ธ๐ถ 11 (2025)
- 13 Intriguing Songs Focused on Women (2025)
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4. Juno Lev, โI had gay sex with god (it couldโve gone better)โ
when they find your body // Milkboy // 2021
โI spent all of last night in godโs bed / Mom, please donโt get upset / โCause now Iโll be immortalized / Iโll be immortalized.โ Ooh-wee, Juno Lev (Jack Braun, who formerly performed as Jackfruit), Iโm speechless ๐ถ! Anytime spirituality is woven into music, it creates a compelling, thought-provoking listen.ย โI had gay sex with god (it could’ve gone better)โ is a prime example of a song with spiritual elements that easily catches the ears. The open-minded and progressive souls will eat this up, while those who are the most god-fearing will cry foul.ย โI saw god in a Trader Joeโs / Buying organic blueberries / Prettiest man Iโd ever seen.โ Noted, Juno Lev. โI had gay sex with god (it could’ve gone better)โ is the fourth track from their 2021 EP, when they find your body. Juno Lev produced this LGBTQ gem with the talented Zach Benson.ย
After god kissed Juno Lev, with dried apricots in one hand, they assert, โI think my teeth are gonna rot.โ The other experiences with god (Lev uses โgodโ lowercased throughout) are questionable too, including โLips sliding open in a prayerโ (a blowjob), and stating that sex with him was โAs close to heaven as Iโll getโ.ย Arguably the best line: โSecond coming in a bathroom stall / But now god wonโt return my calls, wrote him a love letter.โ Holy shit! Beyond mixing queer sex and god, the music is heavenly on โI had gay sex with god (it could’ve gone better).โ The electronic sound palette (keys and pads) shine.ย The drum programming and snaps that arrive during the second verse are sweet.ย The snare drumming is a superb touch. Of course, Lev is the star, singing expressively and gorgeously.ย They are authentic to the nth degree, even as the lyrics are playfulโฆ and blasphemous ๐คญ. Adding to the allure are tuneful melodies from the get-go.ย Oh, and how about one final lyrical shout-out?ย At the end, can I get an โAmen, ah men?โ Perhaps the sex couldโve gone better on โI had gay sex with god (it could’ve gone better)โ, but the song remains a surefire, queer-to-the-nth-degree bop! We Stan!
Appears in ๐ป:
- Juno Lev, I had gay sex with god (it could’ve gone better): Beaming with Pride ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ 35 (2025)
- 13 Songs That Feature Names, Vol. 6 (2025)
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5. Morgan Wallen, โIโm The Problemโ
Iโm The Problem // Big Loud / Mercury / Republic // 2025
โAnd how do you explain / Ever fallinโ in love with a guy like me in the first place,โ Grammy-nominated country musician Morgan Wallen asks her in the first verse of โIโm The Problemโ, the title track from his fourth studio album. ย He adds, โThen turn around, say that Iโm the worst thing?โ My, my, my! Wallen, ERNEST, Grady Block, Jamie McLaughlin, and producer Charlie Handsome (Ryan Vojtesak) penned the problematic, three-minute song.ย โIโm The Problemโ is set in a minor key, fitting for a problem song from a problematic man like Wallen! His talent is undeniable, regardless. Singing beautifully, showing off his rich tone, Wallen asserts in the chorus, โI guess Iโm the problem / And youโre Ms. โNever Do No Wrongโ / If Iโm so awful / Then whyโd you stick around this long?โ Ooh-wee!ย The verses and choruses are terrific.ย The bridge brings contrast yet still fits the overall vibe. Beyond strong vocals and simple but effective songwriting, โIโm the Problemโ benefits from tuneful melodies.ย The country-tinged production is sweet with its fair share of thoughtful touches.ย It doesnโt throw everything instrumentally at the listener at once, growing incrementally more robust in instrumentation and sound. All in all, โIโm The Problemโ is another enjoyable, well-rounded Morgan Wallen song that plays well to his fan base.
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6. Peder Elias, โIf I Got a Dollarโ
โIf I Got a Dollarโ // Peder Elias / Sony Music Entertainment Norway AS // 2025
โCrazy / How youโre back and forth with me lately,โ Peder Elias (Peder Elias Eriksrud Kjรธrholt) sings in the first verse of โIf I Got a Dollarโ. He continues, โUp, down, like a trampoline baby / One day youโre so into me, next day falling out.โ Love and relationships can be complicated to the nth degree.ย Even so, the Norwegian singer, songwriter, and producer approaches โIf I Got a Dollarโ with enthusiasm. Go figure.ย This major-key pop gem was penned by Elias, Ryan Bickley, and Freedo. Freedo also produced it. โStop making a mess out of my mind / You know that youโre killing me with those hazel eyes,โ Elias sings in the second verse, adding, โI need help, help running from you.โ Oh, snap! Truthfully, once you are enticed by someone, even if they hurt you, it can be hard to let go, particularly when physical appearance and pleasure come into the picture. Accompanied by a stellar music backdrop, including rhythmic guitar, Peder โbrings itโ with his warm vocals and lovely tone. He does a marvelous job of bringing the tuneful melodies to life, particularly the centerpiece, the chorus:
โIf I got a dollar every time that you broke my heart
If I got a dollar for each fight that you took too far
Iโd live in a penthouse, uptown, roll out fancy cars
If I got a dollar every time that you broke my heart
Iโd bะต a millionaire.โ
Yep, that is where the money comes into the mix! During the bridge, his hypothetical richness is further explored, with clear separation from the verses and chorus, and some sweet falsetto. One other highlight from the fab โIf I Got a Dollarโ is the post-chorus, where the instrumental slaps. Despite his heartbreak, Peder Elias perks our ears up โsomething fierceโ in this pop bop.
Appears in ๐ป:
- Peder Elias, If I Got a Dollar: Beaming with Pride ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ 31 (2025)
- 11 Songs That Have G-O-T Got It, Vol. 1 (2025)
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7. Luther Vandross, ย โIf I Didnโt Know Betterโ
Dance with My Father // Sony Music Entertainment // 2003
Dance with My Father is a significant album in the Luther Vandross discography.ย It was the late Grammy-winning R&B singer/songwriterโs 13th and final studio album.ย Before the album was released in 2003, Vandross suffered a severe stroke. In 2005, he passed away, at age 54 from complications of a stroke.ย Dance with My Father begins with a super-smooth, adult contemporary R&B bop, โIf I Didnโt Know Betterโ penned by Vandross, Reed Vertelney, and Ezekiel Lewis.ย Vandross produced it.ย โIf I Didnโt Know Betterโ finds Luther Vandross at his best.ย His vocals are silky smooth โ simply angelic.ย As he sings, it never sounds like Vandross breaks a sweat. The production is firmly planted in a grown folksโ brand of R&B but doesnโt sound out of touch with the contemporary R&B of the aughts either. In โIf I Didnโt Know Better,โ the girl, Lutherโs friend, has a man. However, Vandross believes their friendship is more. ย โI see the things that your man canโt see,โ he sings in the first verse, adding, โAnd who is there for you and love you like no otherย / Then you kiss and tell me that you love me like a brother.โย In the second verse, he admits his โreadโ on the situation could be incorrect, but โI donโt rub up on my friends that way.โ Ooh-wee! Besides his brilliant vocals, Luther is supported by sweet background vocals. The chorus is the centerpiece with Vandross expanding on their โrelationshipโ:
โIf I didnโt know better
Iโd think that you were mine, youโre with me all the time
If I didnโt know better
Iโd swear weโre more than friends, youโre touching me again
If I didnโt know better
Iโd think we were in love
Girl, do you wanna tell me something?
Oh, oh, oh.โย
โIf I Didnโt Know Betterโ is a fine non-single from Dance with My Father that deserves its flowers.
Appears in ๐ป:
- Luther Vandross, If I Didnโt Know Better: Bangerz N Bopz ๐ฅ 86 (2024)
- 13 More Magnificent BETTER Songs (2024)
- 15 Captivating, Hypothetical If Songs (2025)
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8. Heather Headley, โAll The Man That I Needโ โ Whitney Houston cover
Broadway My Way // in:ciite // 2018
โHe fills me up, he gives me love / More love than Iโve ever seen.โ โAll The Man That I Needโ is a timeless R&B classic popularized by Whitney Houston. Many other artists have covered this song, originally released by Linda Clifford.ย In 2018, R&B/gospel singer and actress Heather Headley recorded her superb rendition of โAll The Man That I Needโ. It is the sixth track from her 2018 covers album, Broadway My Way.
Headley is supported by warm, adult contemporary production. Among the instrumentation are the rhythm section and strings. The tempo is slow and relaxed. As Headley sings, she is never in a hurry, keeping things cool, calm, and collected throughout.ย She never forces things and sings with a gorgeous tone.ย A key difference compared to the definitive version (Houstonโs) is no background vocals.ย The biggest moments lack the added depth of a choir, but Headley compensates with her pitch-perfect vocal riffs and runs.ย One of her most impressive runs finds her ascending into her ripe upper register, signaling a mean-sounding electric guitar solo.ย There is an awesome key change where Headley โgoes to townโ with jazzy nuances. Covering Whitney Houston is an elephantine task, but Heather Headley makes โAll The Man That I Needโ hers and does a โbang upโ job.
Appears in ๐ป:
- Heather Headley, All The Man That I Need: Covers No. 8 (2025)
- Whitney Houston vs. Heather Headley: Head 2 Head No. 9 (2025)
- 13 Songs That Feature T-H-A-T (2025)
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9. LUKAS OSCAR, โSo Romantic U + Iโ
โSo Romantic U + Iโ // LUKAS OSCAR // 2025
โYou show up unannounced at night / That creepy hour between 3 and 5.โ So, LUKAS OSCAR (Lukas Oscar Janisch), this nameless person arrives at an unholy hour? Hmm, I have so many questions.ย There seems to be an โintimate encounterโ in โSo Romantic U + Iโ. Oscar continues singing in the brief, sub-two-minute song, โThen you blind the room in sequins / Plastic pupils in your plastic eyes.โ Intriguing, thought-provoking lyrics. Sequins are obnoxiously bright and eye-catching.ย Are they so bright that they have created googly eyes (plastic pupils and plastic eyes)? The Gen-Z Filipino Austrian musician penned and produced this romantic indie pop joint.
โAnd itโs so romantic you and I
And that one guy thatโs watching from outside
Weโre one big family
One homeโฆโ
Again, the lyrics are thought-provoking. Later, OSCAR requests, โCut the lights,โ adding some odd, open-to-interpretation lyrics: โMh mh cut the l1ghts c0ldled fe1n r1gh / G0t the l1ghts fu0 me c1t1 r1ght.โ Say what, now?! It sounds sexualโฆ Supporting this intimate experience with this nameless person is a great production. It features an awesome groove โ a dusty, soulful hip-hop beat. Besides the beat, superb music cues include low-key synths and pads.ย Also, โlow-keyโ is Oscarโs vocals.ย They sound chill and laid-back.ย He is expressive yet manages to sound both indulgent and nonchalant simultaneously.ย The melodies are tuneful even when Lukas drops the less decipherable lyrics. โSo Romantic U + Iโ feels sexy without being explicit or overt.
Appears in ๐ป:
- LUKAS OSCAR, So Romantic U + I: Midnight Heat ๐ ๐ฅ 23 (2025)
- 13 Songs Where YOU Are the Focus, Vol. 3 (2025)
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10. Morgan Wallen, โI Ainโt Cominโ Backโ (Ft. Post Malone)
Iโm The Problem // Big Loud / Mercury / Republic // 2025
โIโm a redneck / โCause I drink beer, and I dip Skoal / Guess Iโm a rambler / โCause I canโt not be on the road.โ Grammy-nominated country musician, Morgan Wallen collaborates with a familiar face on โI Ainโt Cominโ Backโ: Post Malone (Austin Post). โI Ainโt Cominโ Backโ is the 27th track (!) from Wallenโs 37-track (!) fourth studio album, Iโm The Problem. The writers are familiar: Wallen, Malone, Louis Bell, HARDY, ERNEST, and Charlie Handsome.ย Joey Moi produced it. Wallen establishes who he is in the first verse, excerpted above. He concludes the verse with a bang: โAnd Iโm the gambler / Iโll take the over on the underdog, huh.โ He goes on to sing the pre-chorus (โGirl, half of this town has got a name for meโฆโ), as well as the chorus.ย It is in the chorus where Morgan asserts, โThereโs a lot of reasons I ainโt Jesus, but the main one is that I ainโt cominโ back.โ His vocals are robust and filled with southern twang. Post Malone contrasts in the second verse with his signature vibrato.ย Playing into the unwanted theme, Post sings, โGo throw your pebbles / Iโll be somewhere gettinโ stoned.โ Gettinโ stoned has a double meaning, of course! Post sings most of the chorus that follows, with Wallen handling the bridge (like the pre-chorus), and both musicians performing the final chorus. Ultimately, โI Ainโt Cominโ Backโ is an enjoyable and respectable song, though not as catchy as their previous collaboration, โI Had Some Helpโ.
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11. The Clash, โShould I Stay or Should I Goโ
Combat Rock // Sony Music Entertainment UK Limitedย // 1982
โShould I stay, or should I go now?โย That is a key question for The Clash, an English rock band comprised of the late Joe Strummer (1952 โ 2002), Mick Jones (1955 โ ), Paul Simonon (1955 โ ), and Topper Headon (1955 โ ). Among the bandโs most beloved songs is โShould I Stay or Should I Goโ, ย the third track on their 1982 multiplatinum, fifth studio album, Combat Rock. ย In the chorus, Jones, who sings lead on this particular track, continues, โIf I go, there will be trouble / And if I stay, it will be double / So come on and let me know.โ ย โShould I Stay or Should I Goโ was written by Jones and Strummer. Notably, it peaked at number 45 on the Billboard Hot 100.
So, what makes โShould I Stay or Should I Goโ kick ass and take names? It begins with heavy, hard-rocking guitar and bass riffs. The spirit of rock and roll is written all over it ๐ค! It is anchored by a superb groove carried by Topperโs mean drumming. Headon provides a signature groove contrast with the double time feel during the chorus. The songwriting is infectious, with Jones bringing the memorable lyrics and tuneful melodies to life.ย Matters of the heart drive the narrative.ย โDarling, you got to let me know / Should I stay, or should I go?โ Jones asks, continuing in the first verse, โIf you say that you are mine / Iโll be here till the end of time.โ In the second verse, he asserts, โItโs always tease, tease, tease / Youโre happy when Iโm on my knees.โ The third includes Spanish! โThis indecisionโs bugging me (Esta indecisiรณn me molesta) / If you don’t want me, set me free (Si no me quieres, librarme).โ A rock classic, the brilliance and timelessness of โShould I Stay or Should I Goโ speaks for itself.
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12. The OโJays, โI Swear, I Love No One but Youโ
Message In The Music // Sony Music Entertainmentย // 1976
โWood thatโs wet will never burnโฆ / Until you dry it / Baby, then you try it.โ Hmm, thought-provoking, The OโJays. So, what is the point? โLove is like that too / One wonโt do, itโs gotta be me and you.โ The Philly soul collective has matters of the heart on their mind.ย That is something that Eddie Levert and Walter Williams Sr. have excelled at throughout The OโJaysโ illustrious career.ย The love-oriented song at hand, โI Swear, I Love No One but Youโ, is the seventh track from their 1976 album, Message In The Music. This non-single was written by the late great Bunny Sigler (1941 โ 2017).
ย โI Swear, I Love No One but Youโ thrives off its slow, relaxed tempo, lush, soulful backdrop (the orchestra and rhythm section), and dynamic vocals.ย The lead vocals (Levert) are top-notch, commanding, and oozing with soul. โLet me love you tenderly, tenderly, tenderly, tenderly,โ he sings in the second verse, continuing, โWe need each other / Baby, Iโm your lover.โ ย The background vocals are no slouch either, filling things out with decadent harmonies. The chorus is sublime:ย
โโCause I swear I love no one but you
Honey, no one will do, oh
I swear I love no one but you
Honey, no one will ever do.โย
Beyond the chorus, another โaward-winningโ moment is the ending.ย The tempo increases, launching into a full-on disco.ย It feels right! โI Swear, I Love No One but Youโ deserved much more love, all said and done. ย Notably, it has been sampled by โGet Down Like Thatโ by Ne-Yo, ย โNo One Will Doโ by Mary J. Blige, and โMy Name Is Leak Jonesโ by Lil Wayne. โSwearโ is an underrated Philly soul classic.ย
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13. Carl Bean, โI Was Born This Wayโ
โI Was Born This Wayโ // BMG Rights Management (US) LLC // 1977
โIโm walking through life / In natureโs disguise, yeah / You laugh at me / And you criticize me, yeah.โ Sad ๐ข, but damn true, unfortunately. Why the bullying? โโCause Iโm happy / Carefree and gay / Yes, Iโm gay / It ainโt a fault itโs a fact.โ Carl Bean (1944 โ 2021) recorded a gay, disco anthem for the ages with ย โI Was Born This Wayโ, released in 1977.ย โI Was Born This Wayโ โturned the gay clubs upโ with its liberated lyrics, infectious groove, and those marvelous 1970s symphonic cues (horns ๐บ and strings ๐ป). โI was born this way,โ Bean sings proudly in the first verse, adding, โWeโre all the way / Nature meant us to be.โ The LGBTQ+ classic would inspire Gaga to record her beloved, powerful anthem, โBorn This Wayโ.ย โI Was Born This Wayโ was written by Chris Spierer and Bunny Jones.ย It was first recorded by Valentino in 1975. Bean famously covered it in 1977.
A black musician recording a gay song in the 1970s was a big deal. Black gay musicians existed โ they have always existed โ but their sexuality was, more often than not, hidden.ย In this case, Bean sang his truth, reemphasizing his identity in the chorus: happy, carefree, gay, and born this way.ย In the second verse, he brings in a โhigher power,โ God: โYouโre calling me strange / โCause you donโt understand / Godโs role for me / In lifeโs overall plan.โ What is interesting about this is how Bean would evolve.ย He eventually became an archbishop.ย Although openly gay, he founded a church for his community โ the LGBTQ community. Sadly, it is not something associated with many churches, even well into the 2020s.ย Despite the adversity, as โI Was Born This Wayโ continues, Bean touts the fact, โI really can be me,โ โI want the world to know / Iโm just ordinary folk,โ and asserts, โIโm gonna carry on / One more time / I was born this way.โ For Carl Bean, it took tremendous courage to โcome outโ with โI Was Born This Wayโ.ย This talented LGBTQ activist, singer, and pastor โpaved the wayโ for many to live their truth, particularly those who are brown and identify as LGBTQ.
Appears in ๐ป:
- Carl Bean, I Was Born This Way: Beaming with Pride ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ 30 (2025)
- 13 Fabulous Songs That Lead the Way (2025)
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